Interpersonal Skills
Mr. Vivek Bindra
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Interpersonal Skills
Relating to one another
Supporting and encouraging others
Being able to give and receive constructive feedback
Listening to and valuing others' opinions
Being able to convey your point clearly
Assisting progress towards achieving an objective
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Improving Interpersonal Skills
Smile as often as you can
Appreciate others
Pay attention to others’ problems
Listening actively
Unite people
Resolve disagreements
Communicate clearly
Use humour
Learn to appreciate
Don’t complain
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Management Styles
Turtle (Escape when you have the chance)
This represents Avoidance.
 Shark (Winning is the only thing)
This represents Competition.
Fox (Giving up something in order to achieveresults)
This represents Compromising
Teddy Bear (Acts for the good of the group)
This represents Accommodating
Owl (Finding solutions agreeable to all)
This represents Collaborating
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Communication Process
Communication is a two way process.
It involves a sender and receiver.
Effective communication gets the desired response.
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What is Communication?
 Shared Space
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B
Intended
Meaning
Verbal message
Non-Verbal Message
PerceivedMeaning
A’s Reality
B’s Reality
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Types of Communication
Verbal
Non-Verbal
Written
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Verbal Communication
Conviction
Confidence
Enthusiasm
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Body language
Eye contact
Facial Expression
Gesture
Posture
Tone
Rate of Speech
Accent, Diction
Pronunciation
Non- Verbal Communication
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Positive Non-Verbal Behavior
S  - Smile
 - Open Gestures
 - Forward Lean
 - Tone of Voice and Touch
 - Eye Contact
N  - Nod
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Barriers to Communication
Lack of Enthusiasm
Distracting Gestures
Lack of Focus
Verbal Static
Lack of Eye Contact
Language
Inconsistency in Information
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Styles Of Communication
Aggressive
Passive
Assertive
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Aggressive
 I win, you lose situation.
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Passive
 It is you win, I lose situation.
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Assertive
 It is a win-win situation.
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Empathy
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What Is Empathy
Put yourself into the customer’s shoes.
‘Seek first to understand,
and then to be understood’.’
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Empathy is the skill of active listening – ofapproaching an interaction with an open mind.
Empathy is identification with and understanding ofanother’s situation, feelings, and motives.
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Understanding Empathy
There are two forms of empathy:
True/positive empathy
Negative form of empathy
True empathy involves
Seeking a person’s positive hope
Shifting their focus from negative judgment
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   Listening is the act of receiving a verbal message from asender and understanding what it means.
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9% time is spent in writing,
16% time is spent in reading,
30% time is spent in speaking and
45% is spent in listening
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Types of Listening
Hearing
Simple Listening
Active Listening
Reflective Listening
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Listening to what is being said by
Keeping an open mind
Thinking Ahead
Analyzing and evaluating the message
Not interrupting
Listening to how it is being said by
Interpreting the persons tone of voice
Evaluating the non-verbal cues
Listening to what is not being said by
Reading between the lines
Asking the right questions
Mental Attentiveness
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Reflective Listening
   Reflective listening is a type of active listening where thelistener ‘Reflects’ what the speaker is saying by repeating orparaphrasing what was said and by being empathetic.
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Do’s of Listening
Ask clarifying questions
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Review what was said and what wasn't said
Respond with empathy
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Don’ts of Listening
Don’t compare yourself with the speaker
Don’t make assumptions
Avoid filtering the conversation
Avoid labelling a statement
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Keys To Effective Listening
Resist distractions
Focus on the interaction
Listen for ideas
Keep an open mind
Hold questions till the speaker has finished
Paraphrasing
Understand that thought is faster than speech.
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