Active Listening
Listening is the process of
receiving
,
interpreting
, and
reacting
to
a message received from a speaker
Listening
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You listen with your mind, heart,
and imagination
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Hearing and Listening are not the
same. Hearing is a physical act.
Listening is a cognitive act.
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We speak @ 125-130 wpm, but
listen and comprehend @ 600 wpm
(almost 4 times faster)
Active Listening
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Listening for full meaning without
making premature judgments or
interpretations
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Total concentration
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Summing up and integration
Effective Listening
Effective listening involves
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react to the message
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exhibit either verbal or non-verbal
responses
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participate actively in the
communication process
Passive Listening
Passive listening is equivalent to hearing. Passive listeners do
not
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Cognitive
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Comprehension
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Paraphrasing
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Asking questions
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Exhibit non-verbal
responses
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Need not necessarily
comprehend/paraphrase
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No questions
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No non-verbal signals
Active versus Passive Listening
Active listening
Passive listening
Process of Listening
Hearing/
Sensing
Comprehending
Decoding
Recalling
Responding
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Appreciative: for pleasure, enjoyment
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Empathetic: to provide emotional
support
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Comprehensive: to understand the
message
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Critical to evaluate for accepting or
rejecting
Types
There are various types of listening:
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generate ideas
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inform
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question and test assumptions as well as evidence
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Inspire
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Improve our communication
Purposes
The purpose of listening is to
Requirements
Empathy
Willingness to
take
Responsibility
Intensity
Acceptance
Effective
Active
Listening
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Thinking speed
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Prejudices against the speaker
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Premature evaluation
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Speaker’s delivery style
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External distractions
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Inappropriate/difficulty language
Barriers
The following are barriers to effective listening:
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Make eye contact
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Exhibit affirmative nods and appropriate facial expressions
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Avoid distracting actions or gestures
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Ask questions
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Paraphrase (extract main points)
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Avoid interrupting
Strategies
The following are strategies to effective listening:
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Make smooth transitions between roles of speaker and
listener
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Avoid prejudgment
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Watch for signals
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Make notes
Strategies (…contd)
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Obtaining useful information (to make
accurate decision)
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Enabling the speaker to get feedback
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Enhancing the effectiveness of
communication
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Increasing accuracy
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Understanding others
Benefits/Advantages
Effective listening techniques help in
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